Money & Budgeting
What to Do When Someone Dies UK — Complete Checklist
Practical checklist for when someone dies. Immediate steps, who to notify, finances to handle, and support available. A guide through a difficult time.
Losing someone is overwhelming. This practical guide helps you through the necessary steps, one at a time.
First Steps
| When Death Occurs |
What to Do |
| At home (expected) |
Call GP or out-of-hours service |
| At home (unexpected) |
Call 999 |
| In hospital |
Staff guide you through process |
| In care home |
Staff handle immediate steps |
First 24-48 Hours
| Step |
Details |
| 1 |
Get medical certificate of cause of death |
| 2 |
Contact funeral director (optional but helpful) |
| 3 |
Notify immediate family |
| 4 |
Find will if there is one |
| 5 |
Secure property if empty |
Medical Certificate
| Who Issues |
When |
| Doctor |
Within days of death |
| If not seen by doctor recently |
Coroner may be involved |
| Coroner |
If unexpected/unknown cause |
Registering the Death
Timeline
| Location |
Registration Deadline |
| England/Wales |
Within 5 days |
| Scotland |
Within 8 days |
How to Register
| Step |
Details |
| Book appointment |
Local registry office |
| Bring |
Medical certificate |
| Provide |
Details about deceased |
| Receive |
Death certificates (pay for extras) |
| Receive |
Green form (burial/cremation) |
Death Certificate Costs
| Item |
Cost |
| Standard copy |
£11 |
| Order several |
You’ll need multiple |
| Recommended |
4-5 copies minimum |
Who Needs Death Certificate
| Organisation |
Original or Copy |
| Banks |
Usually certified copy |
| Pension providers |
Certified copy |
| Insurance |
Original or certified |
| Probate |
Original required |
| Solicitors |
Original or certified |
Tell Us Once Service
What It Does
| One Notification |
Updates |
| DWP (benefits) |
Stops/adjusts payments |
| HMRC |
Tax matters |
| Passport Office |
Cancels passport |
| DVLA |
Driving licence |
| Local council |
Council Tax, voting |
| State Pension |
Stops payments |
How to Use
| Method |
Details |
| Online |
Through gov.uk |
| Phone |
Registry gives you number |
| Information needed |
Personal details, NI number |
| When |
After registering death |
Funeral Planning
| Decision |
Options |
| Burial or cremation |
Personal/religious preference |
| Funeral director |
Compare prices |
| Simple or traditional |
Cost varies hugely |
| Religious elements |
Minister/celebrant |
Funeral Costs
| Type |
Typical Cost |
| Simple cremation |
£1,500-£2,500 |
| Traditional cremation |
£3,500-£5,000 |
| Traditional burial |
£4,000-£6,000+ |
| Direct cremation |
£1,000-£1,500 |
| Natural burial |
£2,000-£4,000 |
Paying for Funeral
| Option |
Details |
| Estate pays |
From deceased’s accounts |
| Pre-paid plan |
If they had one |
| Funeral expenses payment |
If on certain benefits |
| Family pays |
Then reclaim from estate |
| Payment plans |
Some directors offer these |
Finances to Handle
Banks and Building Societies
| Step |
Action |
| 1 |
Call bereavement line (on website) |
| 2 |
Provide death certificate reference |
| 3 |
Small amounts may be released immediately |
| 4 |
Larger amounts need probate |
| 5 |
Joint accounts usually continue |
Common Bank Bereavement Lines
| Bank |
Bereavement Support |
| Most banks |
Have dedicated teams |
| Call |
Main number, ask for bereavement |
| What they need |
Death certificate, your ID, authority |
Stopping Payments
| Priority |
Stop/Redirect |
| Direct debits |
Review, cancel unnecessary |
| Standing orders |
Cancel or redirect |
| Subscriptions |
Cancel (gym, streaming, etc.) |
| Keep |
Essential utilities until sorted |
Probate
What Is Probate?
| Concept |
Explanation |
| Definition |
Legal right to deal with estate |
| When needed |
Assets over £5,000-£15,000 (varies by institution) |
| Who applies |
Executor (if will) or administrator (no will) |
| Grant of Probate |
Official document |
When Probate Is Needed
| Situation |
Probate Required? |
| Property |
Usually yes |
| Large bank balances |
Yes |
| Investments |
Usually yes |
| Small amounts |
Often not |
| Joint assets (survivorship) |
No |
| Life insurance in trust |
No |
Probate Process
| Step |
Timeline |
| Apply online |
gov.uk |
| Pay fee |
£300 (estates over £5,000) |
| Wait |
4-8 weeks typically |
| Receive grant |
Then can access assets |
Benefits and Entitlements
Bereavement Benefits
| Benefit |
Who Gets It |
| Bereavement Support Payment |
Surviving spouse/civil partner |
| Widowed Parent’s Allowance |
If children (pre-2017) |
| Funeral Expenses Payment |
If on qualifying benefits |
Bereavement Support Payment
| Feature |
Details |
| Lump sum |
£2,500 or £3,500 (if children) |
| Monthly |
£100 or £350 (if children) |
| Duration |
Up to 18 months |
| Claim within |
21 months of death |
Benefits to Stop/Adjust
| Benefit |
Action |
| State Pension |
Tell Us Once |
| Pension Credit |
Tell Us Once |
| Housing Benefit |
Notify council |
| Council Tax |
Notify council (may get discount) |
Property Matters
If It’s Their Home
| Situation |
Action |
| Owned outright |
Estate inherits |
| Joint tenants |
Survivor inherits |
| Tenants in common |
Their share to estate |
| Rented |
Notify landlord |
| Mortgaged |
Contact lender |
| Council/social housing |
Notify landlord |
Practical Steps
| Action |
When |
| Secure property |
Immediately |
| Redirect mail |
Royal Mail redirection |
| Clear perishables |
Soon |
| Consider insurance |
Keep buildings insurance |
| Don’t rush clearance |
Take your time |
Tax Matters
Notify HMRC
| Via |
Method |
| Tell Us Once |
Department notified |
| Self-assessment |
May need final return |
| Estate |
May owe or be owed tax |
Potential Tax Issues
| Issue |
What Happens |
| Income tax |
Final return may be needed |
| Inheritance tax |
If estate over threshold |
| Capital gains |
On asset sales |
Self-Care
You Matter Too
| Remember |
Be Kind |
| Take breaks |
Paperwork can wait |
| Accept help |
People want to help |
| Don’t rush |
Especially big decisions |
| Professional help |
Grief counselling available |
Support Available
| Service |
For |
| Cruse Bereavement |
0808 808 1677 |
| Citizens Advice |
Practical help |
| Marie Curie |
Support services |
| Age UK |
Help for older people |
| GP |
Mental health support |
Summary: Timeline Checklist
First Week
| Action |
Done |
| Get medical certificate |
☐ |
| Register death |
☐ |
| Order death certificates (4-5) |
☐ |
| Use Tell Us Once |
☐ |
| Find will if exists |
☐ |
| Contact funeral director |
☐ |
First Month
| Action |
Done |
| Arrange funeral |
☐ |
| Notify banks |
☐ |
| Cancel unnecessary direct debits |
☐ |
| Apply for probate (if needed) |
☐ |
| Claim bereavement benefits |
☐ |
| Redirect mail |
☐ |
First Three Months
| Action |
Done |
| Receive probate grant |
☐ |
| Access accounts |
☐ |
| Settle debts from estate |
☐ |
| Begin distributing estate |
☐ |
| Handle property |
☐ |
| Service |
Number/Website |
| Tell Us Once |
Via registry office |
| Probate |
gov.uk/applying-for-probate |
| Cruse |
0808 808 1677 |
| Citizens Advice |
citizensadvice.org.uk |
This is a lot to deal with while grieving. Take it one step at a time, ask for help, and know that most things can wait a little while. The practical matters will get done — your wellbeing matters too.
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